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Zooming
“Zooming” is my made-up word for what narcs do to start the flow of supply in a new vendor of narcissistic supply. When there is a romantic relationship involved, the experts call it “love bombing.” The word I use for the same type of fawning, worship-like behavior toward a friend, employee, client, or business association is “zooming.” Other forms are zoom, zoomed, and zoom-zoom.
Our Unusually Long Honeymoon Phase
Narcadoodle and I had a longer honeymoon phase than I believed possible. It lasted seven years. Then, the devaluation began. It was night and day. That’s why I was caught by surprise when the honeymoon phase ended. I was not a virgin victim! I had been the victim of narcissistic abuse in...Read more
Zooming and Scanning a New Wonder Vendor (of Narcissistic Supply)
In this section, we’ll discuss how people with narcissistic personality disorder zoom and scan their potential wonder vendors. The Best Narcissistic Supply Comes from Wonder Vendors As one who has served my share of narcissists with some of the best narcissistic supply on the planet, I think of myself as a...Read more
My Narcissist Boss Wanted me to Become His Business Partner (Jerk Side Comes Out)
In 2013, while I was only moonlighting for Narc Boss, a chain of events caused him to demand that we go into business together. When I say “demand” I mean that he pressured me day and night until I finally said I would. Now, here’s where I think I missed the clues...Read more