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Eight years then it’s time to shuck-a-narc.
During the first week of February 2016, I knew that it was soon going to be time to shuck-a-narc. I had worked for Mr. Narcadoodle J. Boss for nine years. Seven of those years I spent working from home without excessive contact by phone or in person. He paid me well as...Read more
Boundary Down!!
Another good title for this installment would be “What the damn hell did you just say?” In early December 2015, Narc Boss and I were talking on the phone and he said, “Vicki, I have some really good news. Just to be sure, I’m going to wait until after Christmas to...Read more
Pink Brick House (Narcissistic Parents Set You Up for Narc Bosses!)
This story that begins in 1963 might be helpful to readers. Screwy childhoods yield the kind of boundaries that narcissistic bosses see as porous. Porous boundaries can’t hold up for long. They are easy to penetrate. You didn’t come here to read about abused kids, but maybe you didn’t realize that some...Read more
Our Unusually Long Honeymoon Phase
Narcadoodle and I had a longer honeymoon phase than I believed possible. It lasted seven years. Then, the devaluation began. It was night and day. That’s why I was caught by surprise when the honeymoon phase ended. I was not a virgin victim! I had been the victim of narcissistic abuse in...Read more
Zooming and Scanning a New Wonder Vendor (of Narcissistic Supply)
In this section, we’ll discuss how people with narcissistic personality disorder zoom and scan their potential wonder vendors. The Best Narcissistic Supply Comes from Wonder Vendors As one who has served my share of narcissists with some of the best narcissistic supply on the planet, I think of myself as a...Read more
My Narcissist Boss Wanted me to Become His Business Partner (Jerk Side Comes Out)
In 2013, while I was only moonlighting for Narc Boss, a chain of events caused him to demand that we go into business together. When I say “demand” I mean that he pressured me day and night until I finally said I would. Now, here’s where I think I missed the clues...Read more
A Partial Timeline with Narcadoodle J. Boss (aka, my narcissistic boss)
The following is a partial timeline for how my relationship unfolded with NJB. As I recall other pivotal times, I’ll write them up in another post. I met NJB in the sprint of 2008 while I was working for an attorney. He happened upon a little how-to publication I had...Read more
My Mother – a Borderline/Narcisstic Personality
This article is not about my narcissistic boss. It’s about parents; my first encounters with the N-kind. They are the reason that Mr. Narcadoodle J. Boss was able to identify me as an easy target and great vendor of narcissistic supply. My mother (now 84-years-old) was actually diagnosed with “Paranoid Schizophrenia”...Read more
This explains everything about a narcissist’s behavior.
I heard something this week about narcissism that flared off one of those rare “ah ha!” moments. It made everything relating to Narc Boss clearer. (My narc boss shall not be identified except by the name Narcadoodle J. Boss or a shortened version like “Narc Boss.”) After a brush up against...Read more